My Journey as a Mom: Lessons Learned at Every Stage of Motherhood
Motherhood is the ultimate crash course in life lessons, and no two journeys are alike. I became a mom at 19, and looking back, I’m amazed at how much I’ve grown and changed with each child. From my rebellious, party-girl days to fully embracing motherhood, I’ve learned so much about myself, my kids, and what it truly means to be a mom. In this post, I’m sharing my story and the lessons I’ve learned at every stage of this wild, beautiful journey.
The Early Days: “The party mom”
When I got pregnant at 19, I felt like a kid myself. I wasn’t ready for the responsibility that came with being a mom. After my first child was born, I struggled to adjust. I still wanted to go out, party, and live the carefree life I thought I was missing out on. Looking back, I cringe at some of my choices—I was irresponsible and immature, and honestly, I wasn’t the mom I wanted to be.
Baby #2: “the hot girl lifestyle mom”
With my second baby, I started to settle down a bit. I took motherhood more seriously, but I was still holding onto my old self. I wanted to be a “hot girl” who could juggle it all—mom life and nightlife. At this stage, I was caught between two worlds, trying to grow up but not quite there yet.
Baby #3: Cozy mom
Everything changed with my third child. I was in a new relationship with a supportive partner who provided stability and security for our family. For the first time, I felt ready to embrace motherhood fully. I no longer had the desire to go out or chase a version of myself that no longer fit. I found joy in the simple things—Friday nights at home with my kids, family dinners, and the chaos that comes with raising little ones.
Lessons I’ve Learned:
Motherhood is a Journey, Not a Destination: It’s okay to grow, learn, and make mistakes along the way.
You’re Not Defined by Your Past: What matters is how you show up today and moving forward.
Each Stage is Beautiful in Its Own Way: Embrace the mess, the chaos, and the love that comes with each chapter.
Conclusion:
Motherhood has taught me more than I ever thought possible. It’s shaped me, challenged me, and made me a better person. To all the moms out there: give yourself grace. No matter where you are in your journey, you’re doing amazing.
